That teacher who
is possessed by a warped notion that degrading students actually serves to
inspire motivation in them. That policeman who uses his gun and uniform to bully
and sometimes kill civilians and extort the ordinary. That father who believes
his obligations end with paying fees and taking care of the rent. That mother
who removes the frustration of her choices on her children. That relative who
appears at dowry bargaining ceremonies to remind you that they are your flesh
and blood, but disappears into thin air when your hospital bill needs clearing.
That greedy sycophantic politician who lies his way to the top with phantom
promises. That citizen who is bought into voting this politician into power with
a 200 shilling note. That workmate who believes in barbarically elbowing their
way up the corporate ladder at the expense of other people’s eyes and ribs, and
their own reputation. That friend who sleeps with your spouse when you are
away. That spouse who is not so unwittingly seduced into your friend’s sex
trap. That stranger who is never satisfied with a first-name introduction;
eager to categorize you in a stereotypical box based on your tribe. That matatu
tout who is quick to shout the way amedharauliwa,
yet doubles the fare on a rainy night then shouts ‘mwisho wa gari!’ a kilometer
or two from your alighting station. That man who will only offer assistance in
exchange for favors, in kind. That musician who snubs the every day people who
have elevated him to a celebrity status. That opportunist in sheep’s clothing
who will not hesitate to bite your behind the moment you turn your back to
them. Those curious neighbors, shopkeepers or watchmen who have patriotically
devoted themselves into making your life their utter business. That person who
has a quick eye and tongue to all the wrongs in the world around them…
Granted, the
world around us can be disconcerting. All these scenarios may or may not have had
an effect on who we are. However, we get to choose who we want to become. It’s
easy to get caught up in the darkness. Instead of lamenting about it, light a
candle; it saves energy and actually stands more of a chance in bringing about
a desired change.
- Note to Self
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